My name is Anita and I welcome you to this place of hope!

Our marriage changed drastically in 2012. We separated after my infidelity and we were not sure of our path forward. I had repented and wanted forgiveness. Through many hard days and nights, I knew I needed help. Counselling was a must for me to change the course of my life. For our marriage to even have the hope of restoration required a changed woman.

We reconciled after three weeks of separation, but hard work was needed to put the pieces back together. Happily, ever after? The journey to happiness and restoration is and was a process of communication, prayer, faith and forgiveness.

Is there hope? A resounding yes!

Has your marriage gone through a tragic moment where you cannot seem to regain your footing? I can honestly say I feel with you. The feeling or thoughts of “how can we ever restore our marriage” can be so overwhelming. You are not alone my friends. I understand that your emotions are running on “how do we start? Where do we begin when everything is broken?”

My dear friends, here is what I do know.

I know you feel despair, confusion, insecurity and are asking how will you ever trust again. What you want is peace. So, I ask this, what is stopping you? I would venture to say fear is undoubtedly the biggest reason why couples stay ‘stuck’ after trust has been broken. My heart feels for you and I completely understand.

My hope and prayer is this; that you find information, hope and a willingness to fight for your marriage here at The Fortified Wife. My passion is for marriages, families restored, and your faith to grow. Also, to be able to put people’s opinion aside (trust me, you will have many sittings in their lawn chairs on the sideline watching and waiting for failure or stumbling). You will also experience those who will support you and pray for you. These are the people you surround yourself with.

After seven years, we have a restore marriage. We have so much support and we want to support you also. I have taken many classes, spent countless hours studying and writing. The Word has become my life, my truth. I pray the information, blogs and scripture here on The Fortified Wife will guide you to healing through our Father.

Blessings

Anita